Tuesday, May 4, 2010

General anxiety disorder

It always looked like that my cousin Sean worried a lot and was a worrier. He often felt uneasy and restless he couldn't relax. At times it would come and go just like that, in seconds. But then it would be there constantly, series of thoughts and emotions. His behaviors wouldn't stop for hours even for days. He would constantly worry and for minor things "would he like the gift","will people like the shirt i have on." For him it became difficult to let things go and move on and would easily be scared. Restlessness and sleepless nights was his usual things. There were times when he would wake up middle of the night sweating and trembling for no reason at all. He was an active person but would loose track of what he was doing. He would read and forget he was reading. At time he would feel light headed and his heart would start pound rapidly. Just hearing his hear beat fast would make him worry more. Sean would always imagine things worse than they really seem to be. He often missed school and work, and it seem there is nothing he can do he would worry more when he misses both. Doctors told him they cant find nothing wrong internally and say that its stress.

Schizophrenia

This story is of a a girl name Lisa. Lisa was born on February 19 1988. When she was growing up she took care and helped her grandmother who suffered schizophrenia whom later died. After the death of her grandmother she suffered anxiety. After a year it was getting worse. Lisa couldn't sleep, she would go weeks without sleeping. When she did sleep she said she would have nightmares about her grandmother dying. She would have panic attacks an  now beginning to have hallucinations. Lisa would see people and things that only she could see. She would constantly hear whispering voices in her head and all around her. Lisa said that the first time she heard a voices that the voices would tell her nasty things. These voices had now developed into an imaginary character. She would say that this voice would make her miserable, annoyed and scared. One day Lisa was waiting for the bus when she started to cry hysterically and almost got hit by the bus because of not paying attention. Lisa would neglect herself, not bathe or keeping herself clean and no one knew why. Some say that she lost it due to the lost of her grandmother and that it was hereditary but no one know for sure. As to Lisa she couldn't take it all she committed suicide.

Muscle Dysmorphic

Every time Mark passed in front of a mirror he would flex his freakishly large muscles. " When I walk into a room full of people I want heads to turn and all the attention drawn to me!," Mark said. Indeed people noticed his 235 pound five foot ten inch body frame. But what people didn't know or see was the psychological and physical turmoil going inside him. Why was he so big ? but it was six years of steroid abuse and he struggled with muscle dysmorphia, which is the dissatisfaction, unrealistic expectation of body size. Mark lifted weights because as a child he was constantly being teased and picked on. He started weight lifting ordinary. He ate right and exercise daily and still hitting the gym. But Mark wanted more he wasn't satisfied, but what he was looking for wasn't sold in stores. So he had to turn to anabolic steroids, drugs derived from male testosterone. Mark's appearance was most important to him and constantly compared himself to others. He would say " Is that guy bigger than me?" He was never satisfied and Mark's steroid use escalated. He had started to take steroid orally but now he was bumped up to injecting steroids. The drugs took their toll on him. He began to loose his hair, acne was popping all over his body. I got worst he had chest pains this was when he slowed down and he began to develop breast. Now Mark has changed he is leading a clean life and now is healthy.

Depression


I have probably suffered from a form of depression since I was about 16 years old. I felt my world was falling apart. My mother had just died and my father was a drunk. He was constantly in and out of bars and abusing me. During that time i was looking after my two little sisters one is 3 and the other is 6. When another disaster struck. I was rocking my 3 year old baby sister in the hammock when she fell and hit her head, my baby sister received massive head injuries and died two weeks later. I started to blame myself for my sisters death and was now feeling i was to blame for my mother's death. I didn't want no one close to me not even my other sister. I felt if she came near i would have harmed her so i kept to myself. My father would come home and tell me i was nothing and would degrade me. I felt i was worth nothing and would constantly cry for no apparent reason. All of a sudden i withdrew from my friends and what i loved the most my volleyball. I had no energy to do anything, and what made it worst that my father didn't care how i felt. When i turned eighteen i was constantly abusing drugs like Valium, marijuana and other antidepressant. Many a nights i would sit on my roof top contemplating suicide. I felt that if i had died no one would care or miss me. I had already dropped out of school and was heading nowhere and quite fast too. Because of past events and was abused. Now i am twenty two years old on medication in a rehabilitation center.

Anorexia

Clara is a 18yr old girl living in the town of Benque. She is a young and beautiful young girl.She has alot of friends and quite smart.Clara has a bright future ahead of her, but due to the ever changing world she doesn't want to be a doctor, or a lawyer, or even a teacher. No she wants to be a model, a super model to be exact. Now Clara has made up her mind and has set her path to obtain her dream. Several months have passed. Now that she has taken up her new career as a super model, it has completely changed her lifestyle with friends, family and even herself. Clara wants to get to that perfect supermodel body, size zero. Her family is a bit scared and frighten of her new appearance and have noticed her behaviors. She has now refused to eat and she denies her hunger. She doesn't eat anything at all and is in constant dieting. She now overworks her body with excessive exercise. She works out everyday at least three time a day and what makes it worst she doesn't eat, in so doing she damages her body. People who are close to her has noticed her constant dizziness and from time to time fainting. She has confessed to her boyfriend of her constant abdominal pain and that she hasn't seen her period on a regular basis. Because of this her boyfriend has begin to reject her. Most men dream of being with a supermodel, but the models that has made it already. A few months later Clara obtained her goal of having a super model body of size zero, but it came with a price: she is dead.Because of what she thought and the society's view of beauty a beautiful young lady died.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

emotional iq

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How well do you know your own emotions?



Understanding our emotional strengths and weaknesses is necessary to affect change and growth in our lives. Intelligence allows us to comprehend and internalize the world around us, but without emotional intelligence we are unable to handle the many pressures, roadblocks, and challenges that stand in the way of our goals. Awareness of our emotions is the first step to living a more balanced and focused lifestyle.





Know Thyself...

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Your Weakest Emotional Category is:





Empathy



Recognizing your emotional strengths is equally important. For example, strong assertiveness can be positive, assuming you are not domineering in conversations and relationships. Strong empathy can be beneficial, as long as you don't put the interests of others before your own well-being. Moderation is the key to successfully handling your emotions.



Your Strongest Emotional Category is:





Self-Reliance



What are the categories of Emotional Intelligence?





•Empathy

•Positivity

•Openness

•Personal Self-Awareness

•Social Self-Awareness

•Confidence

•Motivation

•Emotional Expression

•Emotional Balance

•Assertiveness

•Self-Reliance

•Pressure Performance

•Social Awareness



 

stress

this is frightening
Your Assessment: According to your answers, 6 out of 20 possible stress symptoms are not a problem for you, for a stress symptom score of 30 percent.






You appear to have many stress symptoms.